My
September 2017 reading is introduced to you by Russian Bear!
Sandhya
Menon “When Dimple Met Rishi” [India, USA]
Agatha
Christie “The Murder of Roger Ackroyd” (Hercule Poirot #4) [UK]
Lisa
See “Snow Flower and the Secret Fan” [USA]
Short
story:
Kameron
Hurley “Tumbledown” [USA]
When
Dimple Met Rishi
“Dimple
Shah has it all figured out. With graduation behind her, she’s more
than ready for a break from her family, from Mamma’s inexplicable
obsession with her finding the “Ideal Indian Husband.” Ugh.
Dimple knows they must respect her principles on some level, though.
If they truly believed she needed a husband right now, they wouldn’t
have paid for her to attend a summer program for aspiring web
developers…right?
Rishi
Patel is a hopeless romantic. So when his parents tell him that his
future wife will be attending the same summer program as him—wherein
he’ll have to woo her—he’s totally on board. Because as silly
as it sounds to most people in his life, Rishi wants to be arranged,
believes in the power of tradition, stability, and being a part of
something much bigger than himself.
The
Shahs and Patels didn’t mean to start turning the wheels on this
“suggested arrangement” so early in their children’s lives, but
when they noticed them both gravitate toward the same summer program,
they figured, Why not?
Dimple
and Rishi may think they have each other figured out. But when
opposites clash, love works hard to prove itself in the most
unexpected ways.”
Spoilers ahead. This book
is about two Indian American teens falling in love while
participating in a coding contest. It was a light read, and I'm very
happy there are so many new young adult books with marginalized
characters nowadays! But I cannot say I loved this book… Even
though it's set during a summer camp coding contest and Dimple and
Rishi are participating in it, there's not much coding,
unfortunately, it's just a background, could be any other contest and
you wouldn't even notice the difference. That was disappointing. The
plot is mostly their romance, and that romance left me cold. I liked
Rishi, he was cute and an artist! Also, he's a vegetarian, loves his
parents, is religious, a cinnamon roll really. ^^ But Dimple? Let's
look at her behaviour.
Dimple
goes through Rishi's private things, takes pictures of his drawings
that he chose not to show
her. She even sends those
drawings to an
artist that Rishi likes, but earlier
he chose
to not do that! It
was a hard decision for him, but that was his choice. She
had no right to decide things like that for him. She
pushes him to do things he's not comfortable with (like
dancing in public) but when
someone else pushes her friend Celia to
do the same, she says it's
very wrong.
So it's okay if she does it but not for
others. Also
Dimple
constantly punches Rishi in the ribs, he says “Ow” clearly
showing he doesn't like it, it hurts,
but she keeps doing it and eventually it seems he just accepts it.
Here's
a quote:
Dimple
punched him in the ribs, lighter than she wanted to, but he still
winced. “Ow. You know, most girls just slap guys playfully on the
arm or something. They don’t actually hurt them.”
“Well, maybe you need to
expand your idea of how girls behave,” Dimple replied, grinning.
WHAT.
You hurt someone and your reaction to his pain is that he should
expand his ideas about what women are capable of? Not feeling sorry
for him? Maybe some guilt, no? “Sorry I didn't meant to actually
hurt you” or something like that? The problem isn't that you're
hurting him but that he doesn't know girls?
At
first Dimple seemed playful and passionate to me, but then
I found
her quite unpleasant in how she treats people. So
although their romance was kinda cute in
places I couldn't really
enjoy it…
I'm afraid Dimple will
become a domestic abuser if she keeps going like that – no
respect for boundaries; hurting someone and not feeling bad about it
at all;
punching the guy she claims to love in response to his innocent
teasing or
their minor disagreements (to what level will it escalate from
here?); maybe gaslighting – she
pushed him to do a dance with her for a talent show,
he showed his lack of
dancing abilities, she got
actually angry
he was a bad dancer and insisted he had said he was a good dancer (he
didn't say anything like that! she
said it! but now she's angry
with him for something she imagined he said, and he kinda swallows
it, like it's a ll fine). UGH. She
even blames Rishi for losing the main prize, even though it's implied
the guys who won managed that because of their connections, but she
still thinks
Rishi
and their relationship
distracted her (he was her partner, they worked together, he worked
hard, too, but when they
lose, her first thought is, is it because of Rishi?) She
wants to control everything (choosing their app project, their dance,
what Rishi can do with his own drawings and so on), to decide things
for Rishi, and she shows him no respect. Where is the love in it?
This is domination and control. “Do what I want and only what I
want or else” doesn't sound very romantic to me.
If
you don't find her behaviour uncomfortable to read about, I suggest
you imagine she's a boy, and Rishi is a girl. Would the punching etc.
still be
okay? I
love
diversity in books,
I want more young adult books by authors who aren't white and/or
allocishet, and here is
a YA romance by an Indian American author with Indian American
protagonists, yay! But... I cannot recommend a book that plays into
the double standard that when women are abusive or violent with men
it's somehow funny, cute, or empowering.
Punching someone so hard it
hurts is violence, and it doesn't matter if you're a girl punching a
boy or not. It's not somehow less bad, because “he can take it”
or “women can't hit that hard, stop
whining.” Dimple
isn't passionate. She is mean.
A few
quotes to finish it up:
Dimple gripped the edge of
his desk. The corners of the room swam. Her voice came from a million
galaxies away. “That's… that's how you dance?”
Rishi looked down at his
body, as if to check something. “Yeah?”He looked back at her,
confused.
Dimple clutched her head.
“But you said-you said you were a good dancer!”
“I did not! I barely
agreed that I was 'decent'!”
Dimple
glared at him, her temper flaring. She spoke slowly, enunciating the
words. “That. Was not. Anywhere near decent.”
Isn't
it lovely how she pushed him to dance despite his discomfort and now
she also insults him? Sweet romance, I'm melting.
Anger began to simmer in
Dimple's veins, even though she knew she'd provoked him. “Are you
calling me selfish?”
Rishi
stood, his fingertips pressed against the table. “I'm calling you
unkind. You're right; we're too different.”
I
thought that this was going to be the end of them as a couple, alas I
was wrong.
“Maybe we should just
back out now.”
He smiled and kissed her
on the forehead. “No.”
She raised an eyebrow.
“Did you just say 'no' to me?”
He looked sheepish. “No?”
That
made her smile. For a second.
Run,
Rishi, run.
The
Murder of Roger Ackroyd
“In
the village of King's Abbot, a widow's sudden suicide sparks rumors
that she murdered her first husband, was being blackmailed, and was
carrying on a secret affair with the wealthy Roger Ackroyd. The
following evening, Ackroyd is murdered in his locked study--but not
before receiving a letter identifying the widow's blackmailer. King's
Abbot is crawling with suspects, including a nervous butler,
Ackroyd's wayward stepson, and his sister-in-law, Mrs. Cecil Ackroyd,
who has taken up residence in the victim's home. It's now up to the
famous detective Hercule Poirot, who has retired to King's Abbot to
garden, to solve the case of who killed Roger Ackroyd--a task in
which he is aided by the village doctor and narrator, James Sheppard,
and by Sheppard's ingenious sister, Caroline.
The
Murder of Roger Ackroyd is the book that made Agatha Christie a
household name and launched her career as a perennial bestseller.
Originally published in 1926, it is a landmark in the mystery genre.
It was in the vanguard of a new class of popular detective fiction
that ushered in the modern era of mystery novels.”
Wow
that twist! I'm so glad no one had spoiled it for me. People often
assume “everyone” has read the classics and just spoil stuff
carelessly, luckily I avoided that. This is one of those mystery
novels with a large cast of suspects, so you spend the book feeling
suspicious of most characters, hehe. It was fun.
Snow
Flower and the Secret Fan
“In
nineteenth-century China, in a remote Hunan county, a girl named
Lily, at the tender age of seven, is paired with a laotong, “old
same,” in an emotional match that will last a lifetime. The
laotong, Snow Flower, introduces herself by sending Lily a silk fan
on which she’s painted a poem in nu shu, a unique language that
Chinese women created in order to communicate in secret, away from
the influence of men.
As
the years pass, Lily and Snow Flower send messages on fans, compose
stories on handkerchiefs, reaching out of isolation to share their
hopes, dreams, and accomplishments. Together, they endure the agony
of foot-binding, and reflect upon their arranged marriages, shared
loneliness, and the joys and tragedies of motherhood. The two find
solace, developing a bond that keeps their spirits alive. But when a
misunderstanding arises, their deep friendship suddenly threatens to
tear apart.”
This
was such a sad and lovely book… I'm definitely going to read more
of Lisa See's historical novels. Beautifully written and immersive,
Snow Flower and the Secret Fan is a gem. It follows the lives of two
women bound together as laotongs. This bound is described like this:
“A laotong
relationship is made by choice for the purpose of emotional
companionship and eternal fidelity. A marriage is not made by choice
and has only one purpose–to have sons.”
From
their vows to each other: “On this day,
we, Miss Snow Flower and Miss Lily, have spoken true words. We swear
a bond. For ten thousand li, we will be like two streams flowing into
one river. For ten thousand years, we will be like two flowers in the
same garden. Never a step apart, never a harsh word between us. We
will be old sames until we die. Our hearts are glad.”
What
their matchmaker says: “I am happy with
this laotong
match,” she announced. “Like a marriage between a man and woman,
the kind ones go with kind ones, the pretty ones go with pretty ones,
and the clever ones go with clever ones. But unlike marriage, this
relationship should remain exclusive. No”—and here she allowed
herself a small cackle—“concubines allowed. You understand my
meaning, girls? This is a joining of two hearts that cannot be torn
apart by distance, disagreement, loneliness, better marriage
position, or by letting other girls—and later women—come between
you.”
I've
never read about a relationship like that, so this was super
interesting. It seems very similar to a queerplatonic relationship. Another historical detail I loved
was nu shu (nüshu), women's script. The heroines pass messages to
each other written on a special fan. Also, I loved that one of them
became a vegetarian out of compassion for animals during the course
of the story. ^^
Although
this book quite often got sad and dark in portraying the many
struggles and losses they go through (including foot binding –
there's a chapter focussed on it, so if you don't want the graphic
details, you can skip that chapter), I am very glad I read it.
***
My
October reading is introduced to you by Sunflower!
Ovidia Yu “The
Frangipani Tree Mystery” [Singapore]
Marjorie Liu “
Monstress. Volume 2: The Blood” [USA]
Jaye Wells “Dirty Magic”
[USA]
Xiaolu Guo “A Concise
Chinese-English Dictionary for Lovers” [China, UK]
Hiromi Kawakami “The
Nakano Thrift Shop” (translated by Allison Markin Powell) [Japan]
Short
stories:
Octavia
Cade “The Mussel Eater” [New Zealand]
Aliette
de Bodard “The Shipmaker (The Universe of Xuya)” [France]
The
Frangipani Tree Mystery
“First
in a delightfully charming crime series set in 1930s Singapore,
introducing amateur sleuth SuLin, a local girl stepping in as
governess for the Acting Governor of Singapore.
1936
in the Crown Colony of Singapore, and the British abdication crisis
and rising Japanese threat seem very far away. When the Irish nanny
looking after Acting Governor Palin's daughter dies suddenly - and in
mysterious circumstances - mission school-educated local girl Su Lin -
an aspiring journalist trying to escape an arranged marriage - is
invited to take her place.
But
then another murder at the residence occurs and it seems very likely
that a killer is stalking the corridors of Government House. It now
takes all SuLin's traditional skills and intelligence to help
British-born Chief Inspector Thomas LeFroy solve the murders - and
escape with her own life.”
Loved
it! I haven't read that many historical novels in general, and
historical mystery novels set in Asia even less so, so this book was
really great to come across! Main character Su Lin is a disabled
Singaporean woman, and I definitely want to read more crime novels
with characters like that! There is another disabled character there
too. I knew the author was queer, but still I was surprised when in
the end one of the characters came out (they had reasons to hide
their orientation, so there were no hints about it earlier). The book
was interesting both as a mystery and as a historical novel.
A few
quotes from the book:
“'These natives are so slow to grasp
anything. I don't know why they can't learn to speak decent English!'
'Perhaps if we are
so intelligent we should learn to speak Malayan,' Harry said.”
“Miss Nessa and
the other teachers had been so determined not to let me see my limp
as a handicap that they had refused to see it at all.”
“My grandmother
told me that in the old days, when certain winds were needed to bring
ships from certain ports, the different seasons brought different
cargos as surely as the rains brought different crops. In those days,
a rhythm and an order bound people to the earth and water they
depended on, but with modern steam engines we had lost that
connection.”
“Even the
selfless ladies at the Mission, in teaching young girls to read and
write English rather than themselves learning Chinese, Tamil or
Malay, were strengthening their hold over us.”
“I had seen
enough of Western courtship rituals to know European families did
little to identify, research and arrange suitable marriages. Instead,
to catch the attention of potential partners, Western males had to
resort to shows of strength, aggression and virility, rather like
wild boars in the mating season, and Western females had to decorate
themselves and their homes, like bower birds.”
XDDD
Monstress.
Volume 2
“Maika
Halfwolf is on the run from a coalition of forces determined to
control or destroy the powerful Monstrum that lives beneath her skin.
But Maika still has a mission of her own: to discover the secrets of
her late mother, Moriko.
In
this second volume of Monstress, collecting issues 7-12, Maika's
quest takes her to the pirate-controlled city of Thyria and across
the sea to the mysterious Isle of Bones. It is a journey that will
force Maika to reevaluate her past, present, and future, and
contemplate whether there's anyone, or anything, she can truly trust
– including her own body.”
It
was good, but I liked Volume 1 more. I'm not sure why, I think maybe
this volume was slower-paced? But I'm not too disappointed, I will
definitely read next volumes. ^^
Dirty
Magic
“The
last thing patrol cop Kate Prospero expected to find on her nightly
rounds was a werewolf covered in the blood of his latest victim. But
then, she also didn't expect that shooting him would land her in the
crosshairs of a Magic Enforcement Agency task force, who wants to
know why she killed their lead snitch.
The
more Prospero learns about the dangerous new potion the MEA is
investigating, the more she's convinced that earning a spot on their
task force is the career break she's been wanting. But getting the
assignment proves much easier than solving the case. Especially once
the investigation reveals their lead suspect is the man she walked
away from ten years earlier—on the same day she swore she'd never
use dirty magic again.
Kate
Prospero's about to learn the hard way that crossing a wizard will
always get you burned, and that when it comes to magic, you should be
never say never.”
Enjoyed
this one a lot! It felt like I was watching a cool urban fantasy TV
show. I loved the heroine, flawed but cool, tough and resourceful,
and the rest of the cast was interesting too. There was action,
magical spells, complicated family relationships. Will
definitely continue reading this series because I want to spend more
time with these characters and learn more about their world!
A
Concise Chinese-English Dictionary for Lovers
“Language
and love collide in this inventive novel of a young Chinese woman's
journey to the West and her attempts to understand the language, and
the man, she adores.
Zhuang
– or “Z,” to tongue-tied foreigners – has come to London to
study English, but finds herself adrift, trapped in a cycle of
cultural gaffes and grammatical mishaps. Then she meets an Englishman
who changes everything, leading her into a world of self-discovery.
She soon realizes that, in the West, “love” does not always mean
the same as in China, and that you can learn all the words in the
English language and still not understand your lover. And as the
novel progresses with steadily improving grammar and vocabulary, Z's
evolving voice makes her quest for comprehension all the more
poignant.
With
sparkling wit, Xiaolu Guo has created an utterly original novel about
identity and the cultural divide.”
I
didn't expect to like it so much but I did! I usually prefer books
with more action and speculative elements or crime, and A Concise
Chinese-English Dictionary for Lovers is none of the above, but it
definitely charmed me. The love interest in this book is a bisexual
man who is also a vegetarian, which was a pleasant surprise. ^^ The
heroine's thoughts and observations about the differences between
Chinese and English languages and cultures were very interesting!
Here
are some quotes:
“English
words made only from twenty-six characters? Are English a bit lazy or
what? We have fifty thousand characters in Chinese.”
“Chinese, we not
having grammar. We saying things simple way. No verb-change usage, no
tense differences, no gender changes. We bosses of our language. But,
English language is boss of English user.”
“I
not understanding at all. What this ''tis',
'execut'st'
and 'sett'st'?
Shakespear can writing that, my spelling not too bad then.”
=D
“But you never
really ask me. You never really pay attention to my culture. You
English once took over Hong Kong, so you probably heard of that we
Chinese have 5,000 years of the greatest human civilisation ever
existed in the world…Our Chinese invented paper so your Shakespeare
can write two thousand years later. Our Chinese invented gunpowder
for you English and Americans to bomb Iraq. And our Chinese invented
compass for you English to sail and colonise the Asian and Africa.”
The
Nakano Thrift Shop
“Objects
for sale at the Nakano Thrift Shop appear as commonplace as the staff
and customers that handle them. But like those same customers and
staff, they hold many secrets. If examined carefully, they show the
signs of innumerable extravagancies, of immeasurable pleasure and
pain, and of the deep mysteries of the human heart.
Hitomi,
the inexperienced young woman who works the register at Mr. Nakano's
thrift shop, has fallen for her coworker, the oddly reserved Takeo.
Unsure of how to attract his attention, she seeks advice from her
employer's sister, Masayo, whose sentimental entanglements make her a
somewhat unconventional guide. But thanks in part to Masayo, Hitomi
will come to realize that love, desire, and intimacy require
acceptance not only of idiosyncrasies but also of the delicate waltz
between open and hidden secrets.
Animating
each delicately rendered chapter in Kawakami's playful novel is Mr.
Nakano himself, an original, entertaining, and enigmatic creation
whose compulsive mannerisms, secretive love life, and impulsive
behavior defy all expectations.”
Plotless
and not interesting... There is a character who might be on the
asexual spectrum, and the heroine keeps pushing herself on him, ugh.
No means no, leave him alone.
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